Memorial Day

We felt our family incomplete

And hoped to add some more.

"Three!" the darling dad announced.

But I thought maybe four.

I prayed for strength, I prayed for help,

I said we wouldn't mind.

This was His chance to send them both;

"Please don't leave one behind."

I suspected very early

But I still wasn't prepared.

When the doctor said "you're having twins!"

I laughed, but felt so scared.

Daddy was in shock that day

"What happened to the plan?

You prayed for what? You crazy girl!

Now we have to drive a van!"

We prayed to feel God's comfort

To know it all would be ok.

"They'll be just fine", we knew it then

And remember still today.

The funny thing about answers

With our understanding flawed,

Is that "fine" did not mean what we thought.

"Fine" was something else to God.

The months wore on, our babies grew;

We found out they were boys!

We eagerly anticipated

The love, the work, the joys.

We bought several matching outfits,

We used family and friends

To help us make it through the worst,

To hold on to the end.

Then unexpectedly one night

We had to call our neighbor.

My water broke, we had to go;

I had started preterm labor.

All hell broke loose, it was so fast;

I woke up with the dawn.

My husband had to tell me that

Our little one was gone.

They brought his quiet body

To my room for me to hold.

I felt his valiant spirit then,

So noble, strong, and bold.

He touched our lives so deeply.

Such a tiny little guy!

We spent the day together

Before we said goodbye.

We mourned his death, the crushing blow,

One foot before the other.

Then turned to battle once again;

We had to save his brother.

While grieving for the loss of Dex,

We fought to keep our Crew.

We knew his brother strove with him;

We felt his presence too.

"Your darling may not make it,"

They all told us many times.

We took the NICU rollercoaster

With its inherent dips and climbs.

Surgeries and setbacks

Became the "normal" for our lives.

We never had a guarantee

That this brother would survive.

Survive, he did, and beat the odds!

He came home three months later.

Our joy is full, our hearts at peace,

Just one thing would make it greater.

In sleep reposed, we see his face,

The one he shares with Crew.

Our angel Dex, so loved, so dear,

We wish we had him too.